Umm Mahbub
January 26th, 2007, 21:24
In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious, The Most Merciful
All praise is due to Allah the Lord of the worlds, the Most Merciful, the Bestower Mercy and blessing be upon our Prophet Muhammad sallahaahu 'alayhe wa sallam his family, and his companions. I bear witness that there is no deity worthy of worship except Allah who is alone without any partners, and I bear witness that Muhammad is His Slave and Messenger.
To proceed:
I have alot of question all have something to do with my family,however I am just going to just ask two questions inshallah, MAy Allah have mercy on us.
1. My umm is marry to a man who treat us ( the children and other mudlims) bad. He act as if he dont like us. All of my mom childern (expect one who dont live) with her are muslim and pray the five prays. My mom and this man get marry and divorce over and over, this man put on one face for the people who dont know him, making them think he cares for us and that take care of us which he dont. Every time he want to marry my mom back that when he is so nice to us and care so much, other then that he walk around as if we not apart of his family. He go so far as to talk about my family badly in fornt of people muslim and non muslim. He dont have a job none is he trying to get one, yet he marry and divorce woman tell them he going to buy them everything that they need, and that same week , or two week an month he divorce them without giving them their rights, the woman he marry be people that either dont have islam in thier life or very little and he know does thing about them, he just go out and find anything on the street put the hijab on them marry them then divorce them sometime with no excuse, he make his child run down woman so he can get marry, this child go in and out so woman houses. He do thing that is haraam and then when we advice he with this is get very mad and said thing as if we did something to him because you speek up. So all of this make me hate his ways and i dont want to be around him and when my mom marry to him i dont want to be around her please shaykh advice me, I am very hurt and need to know what to do, I know i cant not just not see my mom. I love my mom, however i know that your on the religion of your husband and his bad will rub on her befor her good rub off on him.
2. My brother dont study that much, and lack in some act of worship, I give him advice yet he keep on doing what he do, I told him that the pen is wrting on him and that he dont know when death is coming yet he keep playing to much and etc,he dont listen what can I done to save him from the fire?
Please I dont want other people to answer this question.
May Allah be please with us / As Salamu 'Aliakum
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I am in a situation where my mother is married to a man who does'nt treat women accordingly ( he often marries others, and divorces them without reason), he mistreats my mothers children, and he speaks ill of us to muslims and non muslim like, he have adviced him, but he gets angry at us. please advice me shaykh, i love my mum but i do not want to be around her when he is around as i hate his ways
my brother lacks in some acts of worship, i advice him but he does not listen, how can i save him from the fire?
All praise is due to Allah the Lord of the worlds, the Most Merciful, the Bestower Mercy and blessing be upon our Prophet Muhammad sallahaahu 'alayhe wa sallam his family, and his companions. I bear witness that there is no deity worthy of worship except Allah who is alone without any partners, and I bear witness that Muhammad is His Slave and Messenger.
To proceed:
I have alot of question all have something to do with my family,however I am just going to just ask two questions inshallah, MAy Allah have mercy on us.
1. My umm is marry to a man who treat us ( the children and other mudlims) bad. He act as if he dont like us. All of my mom childern (expect one who dont live) with her are muslim and pray the five prays. My mom and this man get marry and divorce over and over, this man put on one face for the people who dont know him, making them think he cares for us and that take care of us which he dont. Every time he want to marry my mom back that when he is so nice to us and care so much, other then that he walk around as if we not apart of his family. He go so far as to talk about my family badly in fornt of people muslim and non muslim. He dont have a job none is he trying to get one, yet he marry and divorce woman tell them he going to buy them everything that they need, and that same week , or two week an month he divorce them without giving them their rights, the woman he marry be people that either dont have islam in thier life or very little and he know does thing about them, he just go out and find anything on the street put the hijab on them marry them then divorce them sometime with no excuse, he make his child run down woman so he can get marry, this child go in and out so woman houses. He do thing that is haraam and then when we advice he with this is get very mad and said thing as if we did something to him because you speek up. So all of this make me hate his ways and i dont want to be around him and when my mom marry to him i dont want to be around her please shaykh advice me, I am very hurt and need to know what to do, I know i cant not just not see my mom. I love my mom, however i know that your on the religion of your husband and his bad will rub on her befor her good rub off on him.
2. My brother dont study that much, and lack in some act of worship, I give him advice yet he keep on doing what he do, I told him that the pen is wrting on him and that he dont know when death is coming yet he keep playing to much and etc,he dont listen what can I done to save him from the fire?
Please I dont want other people to answer this question.
May Allah be please with us / As Salamu 'Aliakum
"------------------------------------------ Above question has been modified by the moderator--------------"
I am in a situation where my mother is married to a man who does'nt treat women accordingly ( he often marries others, and divorces them without reason), he mistreats my mothers children, and he speaks ill of us to muslims and non muslim like, he have adviced him, but he gets angry at us. please advice me shaykh, i love my mum but i do not want to be around her when he is around as i hate his ways
my brother lacks in some acts of worship, i advice him but he does not listen, how can i save him from the fire?