Mar-05-2005 - Questions here were Answered by Shaykh Saalih Al-Luhaydaan

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Assalamu Alaykum,

Dear Shaykh, Barak Allah Feek the question is as follows,

I am paralyzed and unable to take care of my taharah without assistance i do get help with bath in mornings and then i am dressed and put on my wheelchair can the bath be considered as wudu for the day? May Allah preserve you.

Jazak Allah Khair

[Unregistered]

Assalamu Alaykum,

Dear Shaykh, Barak Allah Feek the question is as follows,

I am paralyzed and unable to take care of my taharah without assistance i do get help with bath in mornings and then i am dressed and put on my wheelchair can the bath be considered as wudu for the day? May Allah preserve you.

Jazak Allah Khair

[Unregistered]

Aslamualeykum wa rhamtullahi wa barakthu


here is the situation i am in..and a question i want to forward to him

aslamualeykum wa rahamtullahie wa barakatu...

first and most i ask Allah swat to preserve you amen.

my beloved shaykh its my pleasure to wish you good health and emaan and everything that pleases Allah swat. May ALLAH SWAT keep on blessing you for your effort to spread His dean thru out HIS land.

here is my question to you

i am in a process of marrying a salafi sister, however her father who is a muslim ...already refused her to marry another salafi borther who asked her hand before me..not only that since that time he stopped her going to durss, and meeting her friends whom she usuallay gose masjid with...when she insist she wants to get married to guard her chastity....his replay was if she is ever going to marry first she has to finsh university..as she is turning 18 soon...a person she is goin to marry must be from her native country, he must not have a beard..he must have a good job and he must not wear pants above his ankle subahnallah ( its as if he wants her marry shytan) .nevertheless that was a while ago...recently i met this sister never in person tho, we talked about marriage and we agreed on getting married..however when i told her i will ask her dad for her hand regardless what he is going to say...she said she is thinkin of taking another walli as he is not goin to let her marry a person who is upon the way of asalaf...because he even hates the jilbab she wears he wants her wear modern hijab. ( keep in mind her mom also a kafir parnets are divorced...she is basiclly doing her best to stick to the manhaj)

i would like to ask our beloved sk. can i marry her while she takes another walli outside her close relative as she does not have one? will our marriage be halal if we do get marry. as you kno we do not want to end up like the likes of jamatul takfeer who gets married with out the approval of the walai.

barakallah wafeek for your time and effort. looking forward to hearing from you inshallah

[Unregistered]

As salaamu 'alaikum wa rahmatullaahi wa barakatuh,

Here in the USA we have sisters who, wa lillaahil hamd, have zeal for the deen and strive to seek knowledge. However, there are sisters who, based on personal matters and not having good thoughts about each other, start backbiting one another,
labeling each others liars, hizbees, not salafee, etc.

The majority of these sisters are located in communities where the imaams of masaajid adhere to the salafee 'aqeedah.

Know that there are no knowledgeable sisters in the communities here that are well versed enough to say that a sister is a hizbee, or their 'aqeedah is not salafee, etc. It is so bad that it has caused the sisters to talk about one another and not talk to each other. So much so, the speech spreads through the
internet on sister group sites. Can you please give the sisters some advice, and also the husbands of the wives if they know this matter is related to their wives.

barak Allaahu feek.

[Unregistered]

salamu 'alaikum wa rahmatullah

I am a new Muslim and i am very confused because of what i have came to know about gaus and some other sufi terms

can tell me about the gaus,the abdal,autab
who is our gauss now
how can we idendify a true auliya
how can we become an auliya

[Guest]

As salaamu'Alaikum waramatullah wa barakatu...

I wanted to know whether it is permissible to attend the wake or funeral?

Not attending burial I understand but everything else I don't.

My parents and family are not Muslim and I am very close to them. I feel bad that if one of my parents pass, I would not be able to attend and therefore maybe breaking relations with my sisters. What are the options if any?

What and where is the evidence against attending?

[Unregistered]

Aslamualeykum wa rhamtullahi wa barakthu

I am a seaman and most of the time I spend on the sea. I am getting very few hours in my home. my question is can I do my prayers in Qasr
and Jamu while I am in home since I am getting very few hours to stay in home?

[Sister]

As salaamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa brakatuh.

My question is regarding the correct understanding of the hijaab of the woman...

Many sisters are wondering about the correct understanding of the term "jilbaab". It is common to see sisters wearing a large khimaar (one that covers the head, neck, chest and shoulders and it may even extend past the hips or to the knees) along with a jilbaab that comes from the shoulders and extends to the feet. But some say this type of jilbaab is not the jilbaab that Allah has ordered the muslim women to wear even though wearing it with a large khimaar conceals her shape completely.

So we ask: firstly, can a woman wear this type of jilbaab and khimaar or is it waajib for her to wear the one-piece jilbaab/abayah that extends from the head to the floor?

Secondly, if a sister wears the one-piece abayah/jilbaab and it completely covers her neck and chest, must she wear a khimaar underneath it as well?

Jazakamallahu Khairun

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As-Salaamu 'Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barrakatuh,

I desperately need some sincere advice.

A salafi brother and I that were planning on getting married are extremely sad. We were planning on getting married and going to study Islaam together in either Saudi or Yemen. It has come to our attention that he may have herpes.

What are our options and if there is no way that it is permissible for us to get married whatsoever, then is it permissible for me not to get married in the hopes that Allaah may marry us in the hereafter? Also, is being very, very sad about this and praying that Allaah will cure him a blameworthy thing?

Please answer my e-mail since we have little to no access to scholars in the west. May Allaah increase you in beneficial knowledge and reward you with Khair, Ameen!

Salafi Sister feel Islaam,

[Aamir]

Assalaamu Alaikum wa Rahmatulahih wa Barakatuh,
Shaykh, I am trying to save money to try and do Hijrah to Damaaj or one of the other lands of the Muslims(InshAllah), however my parents do not want me to go; and instead they want me to finish my studies in the Medical field. I'm worried about finishing because the University is in a country with few Muslims and one of the reasons my parents oppose me doing Hijrah is because they think I'm an extremist because I try to follow the Quran and Sunnah(ex. growing a big beard, wanting to raise my clothes above my ankle, etc.) Is it forbidden for me to disobey them? Also is it better to finish my studies and then go to one of these lands to learn the Deen or better to just go Fisabeelillah?

BarakAllahu feekum and May Allah(azza wajal) reward you.

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As salaamu 'alaikum

My question for the Shaykh-May Allaah preserve him- is about someone who has to pay back a loan which was upon riba.

Can one make hijrah from this land having a loan to pay back in this country? Can the Shaykh please give us naseeha as I do not allow my wife to work and we want to make hijrah but have this loan to pay back. What should we do?


BarakAllaahu feekum

[Unregistered]

salam alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa baratuh,

firstly, i want to tell you that i love you for Allah,
i started to practice 5 years ago.when i started to pray i felt like someone inside me that insult Allah (Allah protect us from that ), and many more symptoms with which i knew that i was very sick.
I never said it to anybody because i had shame.
al hamdullilah i can make my roukya alone, i can do my obligations
even if sometimes it's difficult, i'm salafi inshaAllah.
but this shaytan try to make it difficult for me everytimes .
Now i want to get married but everytimes i delay because i fear to didn't find a wife who had patience with me.
so do i must tell to my future wife that i'm sick?
and what is your advice for me? barakallahufik Ya sheyk

[Unregistered]

Asalamoalaiakuam Warahamataullla Wabarakathahu

I'm sorry to perturb you, i was hoping if you could answer a few q's of mine correlating to a few muslims i have recently met and who need answers to their predicaments inshaALLAH.

1. A lady has two children from her husband and committed adultery, she
has had her third child and she was hoping for forgiveness or advice.
yet she isnt sure whom the third child belongs to..i.e. her husband or
otherwise.

2. A hetrosexual ( muslim) lady needs advice on homosexual
tendencies..shes has a friend and has known her for 3 years ..the friendship has
been very pure and clean ..until recently..(there has been no physical
contact ..)over the phone and internet they are aroused by each other.
and one has come to her senses the other cant and wont..please dispense
advice..

3. I took a vow to fast for the whole year ..as thanks to ALLAH swt for
answering my dua. i did not use the word or condition "if" is that
allowed?


I would appreciate a quick response..these ladies are counting on me...
I would like to thankyou for takking the time and effort on reading and
responding in due time.
May ALLAH reward you with good with all things good and pure ameen.

Asalamoalaiakaum Warahamatuallaa

[UmmNaseehah]

As Salaamu Alaikum,
I have a very pressing question.

My husband, in pre Islaam and before we knew eachother, commited zina and a child resulted from that 10 years ago. He acted as the childs father, providing maintainance and all. After accepting al-Islaam he learned about the rulings of the children of zinaa and cut of ties with the child and mother. However my husbands non-Muslim family still kept ties and financially supported the child.

Last year the mother of the child took my husband to court for child support. The court ordered a DNA test and when the results came back the court decided that the child was the son on my husband, then placed my husbands name on the birth records and takes $600 US dollars a month for maintainance from my husbands pay check.

How does my husband treat this child knowing that he may see the child at at a family members home?

How does he explain the situation to a ten year old boy?

Is he considered the legal father of the boy because of the court ruling?

BarakAllahu Feek

[AbooAbdirRahmaan]

as salaaamu alaikum


May Allaah preserve you yah Shayhk.......I submitted the question about riba........My wife got this loan without the knowledge if it haraam.........she was raised muslim and was not taught that it was haraam............can you give her naaseeha on paying this off before making hijrah ?


BarakAllaahu feekum

[Abu Sufyaan]

Asslamu 'Alaykum Wa Rahmatullaah

With the Tawfeeq of Allaah and His Blessings the tele-link was great and it went on for about 1 hour and 25 minutes, and all above questions were answered. Wa lilahil Hamd

May Allaah reward our Noble Shaykh for his time and May Allaah reward you all as well for spending some time to learn about the matters of the Deen.

[nisshoami]

Name of the Shaykh: Shaykh Saalih Al-Luhaydaan

Title of the Lecture: A Glimpse at the Character of Prophet Muhammed Sallahu 'alayhi Wa Sallam

Date of the Lecture: March 05, 2005

Listen to the Lecture: Click Here (http://www.albaseerah.org/audio/saalih.htm)

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