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Old January 26th, 2007, 21:24
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Default Feb-24-2007 - Questions here were Answered by Shaykh Ali At-Tuwayjari

In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious, The Most Merciful

All praise is due to Allah the Lord of the worlds, the Most Merciful, the Bestower Mercy and blessing be upon our Prophet Muhammad sallahaahu 'alayhe wa sallam his family, and his companions. I bear witness that there is no deity worthy of worship except Allah who is alone without any partners, and I bear witness that Muhammad is His Slave and Messenger.

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I have alot of question all have something to do with my family,however I am just going to just ask two questions inshallah, MAy Allah have mercy on us.

1. My umm is marry to a man who treat us ( the children and other mudlims) bad. He act as if he dont like us. All of my mom childern (expect one who dont live) with her are muslim and pray the five prays. My mom and this man get marry and divorce over and over, this man put on one face for the people who dont know him, making them think he cares for us and that take care of us which he dont. Every time he want to marry my mom back that when he is so nice to us and care so much, other then that he walk around as if we not apart of his family. He go so far as to talk about my family badly in fornt of people muslim and non muslim. He dont have a job none is he trying to get one, yet he marry and divorce woman tell them he going to buy them everything that they need, and that same week , or two week an month he divorce them without giving them their rights, the woman he marry be people that either dont have islam in thier life or very little and he know does thing about them, he just go out and find anything on the street put the hijab on them marry them then divorce them sometime with no excuse, he make his child run down woman so he can get marry, this child go in and out so woman houses. He do thing that is haraam and then when we advice he with this is get very mad and said thing as if we did something to him because you speek up. So all of this make me hate his ways and i dont want to be around him and when my mom marry to him i dont want to be around her please shaykh advice me, I am very hurt and need to know what to do, I know i cant not just not see my mom. I love my mom, however i know that your on the religion of your husband and his bad will rub on her befor her good rub off on him.

2. My brother dont study that much, and lack in some act of worship, I give him advice yet he keep on doing what he do, I told him that the pen is wrting on him and that he dont know when death is coming yet he keep playing to much and etc,he dont listen what can I done to save him from the fire?



Please I dont want other people to answer this question.

May Allah be please with us / As Salamu 'Aliakum

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I am in a situation where my mother is married to a man who does'nt treat women accordingly ( he often marries others, and divorces them without reason), he mistreats my mothers children, and he speaks ill of us to muslims and non muslim like, he have adviced him, but he gets angry at us. please advice me shaykh, i love my mum but i do not want to be around her when he is around as i hate his ways

my brother lacks in some acts of worship, i advice him but he does not listen, how can i save him from the fire?

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Old January 27th, 2007, 12:35
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AsSalaamu Alaikum waRahmatullaahi WaBarakaatu,

A brother asks:

"A person stated that if you understand the Arabic language and you have the books of the Salaf and their explanations, You do not need to connect with the Ulemaa. What is the ruling on this?"
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Old January 27th, 2007, 12:37
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asalamu alaikum warahmatullah wabarakaat

what is the ruling concerning the adhan, is it obligatory to do it in ones house if there is a regular jamaat?
also is it obligatory to do it at college if there is a regular jamaat?

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Old January 27th, 2007, 13:31
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asalamualikum

Is it permissible to make dua in your sujood in english....would your prayer still be valid. Should I only make dua (in english) in sunnah and nafil prayer.
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Old January 27th, 2007, 19:37
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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

This is a Question regarding a present ,which was given to a Family with a saying, this gift shall be a reward for their efforts ... the Gift was accapted..After a time period ,the Family returned the present back with questioning:
.." How was it again, for your efforts??''

What shall the person do ,shall he take back the gift he has given
to the family...?

Hayyakumallah ya Shaykh Barakallahufikum.
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Old February 9th, 2007, 19:24
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Default I brother who is concerned about debt!

Dear beloved Sheikh may Allah reward you, and increase you all goodness in this life and the hereafter…

I have worry that has been troubling me for quite a while now…

I was hoping you could help…

Basically, long time ago, my friend was selling mobile phones, and customers that bought the mobile phones, signed a contract…

The contract stated, that they pay £35 a month to the mobile phone network called T-mobile, similar to al-jawal and mobily, but my friend promised to reimburse the customers who pay this £35 a month, with a monthly cheque of £35, so in effect the customers get the phone, and talk time for free…

Based on this, I saw it as an opportunity to benefit a lot of people by getting them cheap mobiles, and also made some money out of the process, giving my word to my customers who purchased off me, that they will receive their promised £35 a month, this guarantee was based on my trust on the supplier, who is also a Muslim…furthermore, some of my customers realised how cheap the mobiles were being sold for, they began to get their own customer for me, thus becoming traders as well…

After last Ramadan, I came back to the UK, to learn that my supplier had ran away, owing lots of people money, including me and my customers….I explained the situation to my customers and they all understood, however some of them demanded the money of me, because I guaranteed their £35 a month…

So what is the ruling on this? Do I owe them out of my own pocket, whilst they know, that my supplier has ran away? What about the people whom I did not guarantee directly, however, I promised the people they got it from?...is it permissible to find and harm my supplier, in order to get my money? Could you please give me some advice, as I don’t want to die in a state of debt!

I hope you understand my complicate situation. May Allah reward you and bless you very much…

Jazakallahu kaira
Was salaamu alaikum wa rahmatullah.
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Dear beloved Sheikh may Allah reward you, and increase you all goodness in this life and the hereafter…

A muslim was selling mobile phones and in the contract it stated that the customers would receive full reimbursement. I assisited in acquiring customers and the same contract applied. Others worked under me acquiring customers and the same contract applied. The supplier ran away owing many customers including me and those under me. Am I responsible to pay those customers that I acquired and their customers the reimbursement? Advise me on the best way to deal with this muslim if I find him.

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Old February 9th, 2007, 19:30
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Default A concerned brother regarding debt!

Dear beloved Sheikh may Allah reward you, and increase you all goodness in this life and the hereafter…

I have worry that has been troubling me for quite a while now…

I was hoping you could help…

Basically, long time ago, my friend was selling mobile phones, and customers that bought the mobile phones, signed a contract…

The contract stated, that they pay £35 a month to the mobile phone network called T-mobile, similar to al-jawal and mobily, but my friend promised to reimburse the customers who pay this £35 a month, with a monthly cheque of £35, so in effect the customers get the phone, and talk time for free…

Based on this, I saw it as an opportunity to benefit a lot of people by getting them cheap mobiles, and also made some money out of the process, giving my word to my customers who purchased off me, that they will receive their promised £35 a month, this guarantee was based on my trust on the supplier, who is also a Muslim…furthermore, some of my customers realised how cheap the mobiles were being sold for, they began to get their own customer for me, thus becoming traders as well…

After last Ramadan, I came back to the UK, to learn that my supplier had ran away, owing lots of people money, including me and my customers….I explained the situation to my customers and they all understood, however some of them demanded the money of me, because I guaranteed their £35 a month…

So what is the ruling on this? Do I owe them out of my own pocket, whilst they know, that my supplier has ran away? What about the people whom I did not guarantee directly, however, I promised the people they got it from?...is it permissible to find and harm my supplier, in order to get my money? Could you please give me some advice, as I don’t want to die in a state of debt!

I hope you understand my complicate situation. May Allah reward you and bless you very much…

Jazakallahu kaira
Was salaamu alaikum wa rahmatullah.
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Old February 10th, 2007, 00:44
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Angry what to do?

I'm A Sister That Is Married To A Bro That Is A Boxing.
And He Is In Trining Right Now In Anther City. He Is Staying In A Place That Has Woman That Are Not Muslim. His Stays In The Same House.

I've Ask Him Many Many Times About This And He Told Me That No One Stay's In That House But Him. So When I Asked Him To Take Me Thier So I Can See How He Is Living. A Woman Was In One Of The Rooms In That House.

I Gave My Husban Many Times To Tell Me The Truth. But He Just Keep Telling Me The Same Thing Over And Over, The Girl Don't Live Thier She Live's Upstairs. But I Ask,
Why Is She In This Apt Were You Said That It Was Just You.

I Don't What To Be Married To This Bro Any More. And This Is Not The Frist Time He Lied To Me.

I Feel That I Can't Be Married To Him Any More. I Don't Trus Him Or Beleive Anything He Say.

Pls....help Me With This. P.s My Husban Is Still In That Same House......also I Forgot, I Ask The Woman Do She Stay In That Apt And She Told Me Yes.

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My husband is staying in another city for boxing training. When I went to visit there was a non-muslim woman in one of the rooms who says she lives there. He says she doesnt. I dont trust him or want to be married to him anymore. Please advise me.

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Old February 27th, 2007, 11:29
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Default Re: 02-24-07:: Questions in this thread were Answered by Shaykh Ali At-Tuwayjari

Name of the Shaykh: Shaykh Ali At-Tuwayjari

Title of the Lecture: Seeking Knowledge

Date of the Lecture: February 24, 2007

Listen to the Lecture: Click Here

Read The Transcript: Click Here

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